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The New Adventures of Mr Stephen Fry » Topic: Katy-Sara Culling http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling Just another bbPress community en-US Sun, 26 May 2013 03:50:27 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/search.php michael on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/5#post-289145 Thu, 29 Nov 2012 02:30:30 +0000 michael 289145@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ <blockquote><cite>ScarletCorvus <a href="//www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/5#post-288315"">said</a>:</cite> This made me cry all over again. Hello Michael, I've missed you. I remember her smiley too. She was like a loving mom figure when she did that. Just appreciating our silly happiness. omg this has got the tears flowing.</blockquote> Hello! well if it makes you feel any better it always makes me feel better that someone else knows what I am feeling and feels it too... if that makes any sense. losing an online friend is so strange; i never could feel like i'd ever really grieved about it the way i normally would, you know? much love! TobiasMonk on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/5#post-288319 Tue, 23 Oct 2012 02:54:01 +0000 TobiasMonk 288319@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ To absent friends and returned ones. ScarletCorvus on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/5#post-288315 Tue, 23 Oct 2012 01:48:57 +0000 ScarletCorvus 288315@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ <blockquote><cite>michael <a href="//www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/2#post-267495"">said</a>:</cite> i remember also... many times early on, I and a member named Red Raven, would start getting like giggly schoolgirls, or quickly make 20 posts on one thread...to be followed up by a post from Katy that was purely this: " <img src="http://www.stephenfry.com/bb-content/plugins//bb-smilies/default/icon_mrgreen.gif" title=":mrgreen:" class="bb_smilies" /> "</blockquote> This made me cry all over again. Hello Michael, I've missed you. I remember her smiley too. She was like a loving mom figure when she did that. Just appreciating our silly happiness. omg this has got the tears flowing. ScarletCorvus on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/5#post-288313 Tue, 23 Oct 2012 01:41:21 +0000 ScarletCorvus 288313@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ I just stumbled upon this and it took my breath away. I cried and now I'm ready to give my piece. I joined this forum years ago under a different name(I have a new acct because I forgot my password and no longer use the email I registered under then) when I was going through a very difficult time in my life. I wasn't sure what was wrong, but I knew it wasn't right. I was diagnosed BP but I felt that I wasn't and since then I've found that I am not, I was just going through a severe depression. Katy-Sara was there and helped me like so many others. She was absolutely precious. She was not only here for me on the forums but also through IM and even over the phone. I tried to be there for her as well but she was so much better at it than I was. She was gentle and sweet and compassionate. We laughed and cried and laughed some more. She was also very talented and I looked forward to reading any snippet I could talk her into sharing. I am so sad to hear that she is no longer with us. She was such an amazing person. Vinchy on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-284645 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 23:18:27 +0000 Vinchy 284645@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ Very often a person, who helps us, needs help lot more. And sometimes we understand it too late nanny rabbits on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-280875 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 22:12:14 +0000 nanny rabbits 280875@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ i can understand your missing her michael, she sounds very special and i feel those of you that knew her were blessed. i think that keeping her posts here was a lovely idea too because it means she continues to shine (that crazy diamond) and help others, as would have been her wish. thank you for you kind reply i hope you are well x michael on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-280819 Wed, 25 Jan 2012 02:24:58 +0000 michael 280819@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ Hi Nanny Rabbits, she'd feel very good to know she helped you out. it's what she loved to do. i wish she was still here and i've been missing her a lot lately. it's nice to read that somehow folks are still getting to know her. thanks so much for your post. nanny rabbits on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-280681 Sun, 22 Jan 2012 01:17:03 +0000 nanny rabbits 280681@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ i am in tears i only yesterday discoverd this forum and read several of Katy-Sara's posts without then knowing that she was no longer with us (in the physical sense at least) and was filled with admiration for this giving and light-filled person. i am so sorry that those that loved and knew her have lost such a wonderful being. i feel somewhat befeft myself though i've only known her (through the words she left here) for less than 24 hours. it is extaordinary that she has helped me through a very tough 24 hours even after her death. how utterly amazing she is! may her beautiful soul rest in peace. Gertrude Susanne on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-268171 Sun, 03 Apr 2011 11:27:36 +0000 Gertrude Susanne 268171@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ I haven´t been on the forum for a while and am shocked to read of Katy Sara´s passing away. She will be sorely missed. My heart and thoughts go out to her family. Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep. I am in a thousand winds that blow, I am the softly falling snow. I am the gentle showers of rain, I am the fields of ripening grain. I am in the morning hush, I am in the graceful rush Of beautiful birds in circling flight, I am the starshine of the night. I am in the flowers that bloom, I am in a quiet room. I am in the birds that sing, I am in each lovely thing. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there. I do not die. BethRichmond on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-267895 Wed, 30 Mar 2011 13:09:34 +0000 BethRichmond 267895@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ Hi Everyone, I'm Beth, Katy Sara's sister. I can't thank you enough for the lovely words that you have all been writing about my amazing sister. I know that my parents have been on here and read what people have been saying and it does help. It's incredible how many lifes she touched. Katy was the kindest person, and she was so many other things and it's not physically possible to list all of them here. She was strong and talented and the best sister that anyone could have ever asked for. She battled for such a long time. She was always there for so many people and helped some in small ways and others in huge ways. Someone recently said to me how much that Katy had helped them and said "I just wish that she like me she'd had a Katy Sara to help." I just think how true that is... Lots of love to you all and Love you forever my darling sister. xxxx cashew on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-267893 Wed, 30 Mar 2011 11:58:48 +0000 cashew 267893@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ I've been lurking for quite a while. I'm very upset to hear this news. My condolences to Katy-Sara's family. Her work here did have an impact on people like me who never actually posted and she will be missed. <img src="http://www.stephenfry.com/bb-content/plugins//bb-smilies/default/icon_sad.gif" title=":(" class="bb_smilies" /> BayTheMoon - David Thomas on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-267799 Tue, 29 Mar 2011 08:46:12 +0000 BayTheMoon - David Thomas 267799@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ I tend to agree with Steerpike. This thread will always be there, just let Paul and Sue know where to look. Because many people right now may be too upset to post anything, but later they will be able to do so. That way, there is no danger of putting together something which is not fully representative of how people feel about Katy. Steerpike on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-267757 Mon, 28 Mar 2011 21:39:12 +0000 Steerpike 267757@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ I'm sure Paul will find this thread if, as and when he and Sue are ready and want to look for it. elTweeno on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-267735 Mon, 28 Mar 2011 20:38:22 +0000 elTweeno 267735@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ <blockquote><cite>Clare30 <a href="//www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-267729"">said</a>:</cite> I have already passed on a couple of things to Paul and Sue, Katy's parents, so they could see how Katy had touched people's lives. I sense at the moment they need a little time and space to come to terms with their loss. But if it would help any of you guys on the forum who formed such a loving community around Katy, I would be happy to pass on anything you put together, so they have something to remember in years to come? In that way, they can read and digest things when they are ready. Clare</blockquote> If people want, I'm happy to compile something - but like you said, not yet. I was thinking more of in a couple of weeks' time, after the initial grieving process...doing something now would seem strangely intrusive, but they should at least see the 4 pages (and counting) of heartfelt messages from across the globe. Anything that major would take a little while to compile, so we're not talking immediate action in any case. See what people think, and if there's enough agreement I'll think of something. eT Steerpike on "Katy-Sara Culling" http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/topic/katy-sara-culling/page/4#post-267733 Mon, 28 Mar 2011 19:22:43 +0000 Steerpike 267733@http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/ Love you, K. 'a' <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2oTmdZ-Q7g" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2oTmdZ-Q7g</a> <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LLs-JP5FGAg" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LLs-JP5FGAg</a> <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rLhculGmGn0" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rLhculGmGn0</a> Edit: See - I can't even post links properly without you