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Jodyne


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Posted Mon Aug 20th, 2007 11:17am Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Hello All,

I joined this forum a while ago and have read lots of your posts and wanted to share what I do with you.

My name's Jodyne, I'm 30 and have suffered with depression on several occasions throughout my life, I'm not bipolar though

The energy therapy I want to tell you about is EFT (Emotional Freedom Therapy) - I know you've talked about complimentary therapies on here before, but I did a search for EFT and nothing came up, and, in my opinion, it's perfect for this disorder amongst many other things.

EFT consists of tapping on acupressure points to restore balance in your body's energy, whilst saying things to reprogramme your subconscious. It combines ancient Chinese medicine with more traditional talk therapy.

EFT has so many plus points and, I believe, advantages over other therapies. The biggest is probably that you can administer the technique to yourself, so it’s free! It’s easy to use and very fast and effective. Please have a look at my website http://www.eftwithjodyne.co.uk and the founder, Gary Craig’s website, http://www.emofree.com. You can learn EFT there and get started straight away - should you so wish!

EFT works on the understanding that all negative emotions are caused by a disruption in the body’s energy system. Often we sabotage ourselves against feeling better at a completely subconscious level and this is called ‘polarity reversal’ or ‘psychological reversal’. EFT begins with a set up phrase to get rid of polarity reversal, so that the tapping will have an effect. I liken it to putting the batteries in the wrong way in a radio - if the poles are reversed the radio won’t work, well, we’re the same

I’d be happy to answer any questions you might have and it’s my dream to become good friends with Stephen Fry and help him manage his bi-polarity!! Obviously I just want to be friends with him and absorb his conversation, wit and endless intelligence!!

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tracy8673


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 6:01pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Thanks for the tip, Jodyne. Have tried this before (along with a whole bunch of other alternative stuff - hypotherepy, reiki, reflexology, sprititual healing, aromatherapy), but I'm afraid it did absolutely nothing for me. I know that Paul McKenna has used this technique when trying to help people to stop smoking/eating etc. I believe that such techniques can be useful as a placebo - but I think you'd need to be suseptible to such things.

I actually know a little about this as, during one of my manic episodes, I truelly believed that I could heal people. I spent around £1,000 learning to become a Reiki Master :-// and I thought I was special - chosen, if you will. I haughtily looked down upon people who didn't understand or agree with me. In my opinion they were narrow minded and ignorant.

Like most ideas and projects that I have enthused about during high episodes, it eventually fell by the wayside. I have since read enough literature to convince me that the great majority of alternative medicines are ineffective. Derren Brown makes some excellent points in his book 'Tricks of the Mind' where he addresses this subject. As I mentioned earlier, they can be very effective when people believe that they are working. The mind can be a very powerful thing. As for energy systems, shakras and the like - I am inclined to consider them to be codswallop.

Of course, this is just my most humble opinion which is not meant to offend. I just urge you to consider the other side of the coin. Reading your post reminds me so much of how I felt and must have sounded 3 years ago. I know that your intentions are good

I wish you well,

Tracy x

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Jodyne


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 7:35pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Thank you for your reply Tracy. I must admit to be expecting what you've written, just from reading lots of the posts on here - I can get a feeling of where you're at with your respective 'disorders'. And I , of course, respect your opinion - everyone's entitled to one!! (So thanks for the well wishes).

The thing about EFT being a placebo effect is interesting - I think that there's too much negative emphasis on 'placebos' - after all, if the end result is that you feel better, who cares what got you to that point!? I've treated countless ailments and so long as the person feels better and improves, it doesn't bother me, what they attribute it to

Energy is scientifically explained, so I do wonder why you consider energy systems etc to be codswallop. EFT works for the majority of people, so many therapies are based on ancient Chinese medicine dealing with Chi - I believe there's got to be something in it

Do you mind if I ask whether you saw an EFT practitioner, or did you simply apply the technique to yourself with no supervision? Listening to you (or reading your words!) I would suggest that you are completely reversed to treating your condition. This is very common and I have family members who I know don't want to get rid of their phobias/stop smoking etc and I wouldn't force my therapy on them. I simply wanted to put EFT out there to you all, in case you wanted to try it

Please explain the 'other side of the coin' you'd like me to consider - I'm totally open to it and would hope I've already considered it!!

Good luck to you x

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tracy8673


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 9:44pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Oh dear! I should never have gotten into this one!

There is so much I could say on this subject but I feel I would be wasting my time and energy and I suspect it would be falling upon deaf ears anyway.

I avoid confrontations at all costs. However, I find your last reply deeply offensive.

Do you mind if I ask whether you saw an EFT practitioner, or did you simply apply the technique to yourself with no supervision?

I used a 'qualified' EFT practitioner - several times. Paid good money for it (and clearly wasted it) with EVERY intention of treating my condition.

Listening to you (or reading your words!) I would suggest that you are completely reversed to treating your condition

How dare you! You haven't got the first clue about my 'condition'. I can see where you are coming from though. Obviously, because EFT and all of the other things I tried didn't work, it was my fault for not wanting to get better - not because they don't work.

Yes, energy is scientifically explained. I wont pretent to be a physics expert - but 'chi' is not scientifically recognised as far as I know. Ancient Chinese medicine may be quoted in such therapies, but in developed China only 18 per cent of people use such traditional medicines despite the fact that they are widely available. Just because a medicine or technique was around hundreds of years ago it does not prove its efficacy. If you doubt this, why don't you try leeches next time you feel unwell!

If you really want to research opposing arguments, I suggest you try Derren Brown's 'Tricks of the Mind'. I mentioned this book earlier and it makes some very valid, well researched and thought provoking points. Also a book by John Diamond called 'Snake Oil'. This book was written by a man who was dying of cancer and his undignified experiences of alternative medicine. Also, I strongly recommend Richard Dawkins 'The God Delusion' - go on - I dare you!

Finally, I would ask you to approach this forum with a little more sensitivity, please. just from reading lots of the posts on here - I can get a feeling of where you're at with your respective 'disorders'. What is that supposed to mean, exactly??? I am sure that you are very well meaning in your intent. However, when I look back at my own experience as a 'healer', I feel embarressed of the self-indulgent and ego-driven drivel that spouted from me. I also meant well, but I feel ashamed that I may have exploited desperate people. (I would like to point out, though, that I never took payment from anyone, which at least is something).

Again, I normally detest conflict. I do not intent to offend. But I do feel extremely offended.

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Maniac


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 10:21pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD

Listening to you (or reading your words!) I would suggest that you are completely reversed to treating your condition.


THAT!! has pissed me right off!!

Yes, people with bipolar are often quoted as saying they love their manias and would not 'push Stephen's button to get rid of it' but please!!
There are people on here who's lives have been shattered by their condition.
There are people who's families have been shattered by their condition.
There are people on here who despair and would give their right arm to be out of the hell that is a bad depression, yet you, Jodyne, come on here and suggest people don't actually want help?

It is, of course, possible that you meant it completely innocently.
Stephen Fry would not be without his bipolarity, neither would Dr. Liz Miller or Richard Dreyfus - this is quite possibly what you meant.
But, can I suggest that next time you come into a forum, as a totally new entity - that you think, before you post.
Please?

I hope you've felt some energy from the forum today!!

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tracy8673


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 10:23pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
X-D X-D X-D X-D X-D X-D X-D

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Kirsty


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 10:37pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
hi all.how r u all?
im a manic depressive (i prefer the term than bipolar (sounds so ominous) its a life destroying illness. but a man who is inteit lligent, witty, funny, and intelligent. a man who is in short; a genius. i do not use the word lightlly suffers as i do. i suddenly believe in life. i can write u storys poems and analyse the hoistory of it (best grade in english every year thru school proves it) yet that means nothing compared to the genius that is stephen fry. i want to make something of myself. first and foremost a nurse (something i have to do) then a degree graduarte of english literature. then my ulitmte goal is to be a panalist on QI. xxx who can call manic depression a curse, when mr stephen fry has it. it ,makes me lucky to share a trait with a genius. and what a genius he is xx

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Maniac


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 10:45pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Welcome Kirsty.

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tracy8673


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 10:58pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Very true, Kirsty. I, myself, do not feel at all ashamed of my diagnosis. The only thing that prevents me from telling those beyond my close circle is the ignorance, lack of understanding and discrimination of a few. That does not mean that I don't want to get better during the bad times.

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Jodyne


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 11:47pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Maniac and Tracy - I sincerely apologise for any offense caused My comments were not intended to offend at all and the reversal I spoke of is at a subconscious level, so I wasn't suggesting you're all using your diagnosis as an attention-seeking aid.

It's difficult to infer tone from the written word, so I hope the insults and reprimands I sense from your messages, were not intended For someone who hates confrontation, you're very good at it! The energy was certainly felt, Maniac!

I was well intentioned writing my initial post (please all read that again ) - I really only wanted to offer another avenue for you all - I tried to choose my words carefully - 'should you so wish' etc and a 'thanks but no thanks' would have sufficed, or, nothing at all! But you chose to reply and by saying things like 'haughtily look down on people' and then make your direct comparisons to me, I don't feel I made the first pre-judgements......... I replied in haste to your post Tracy as I felt attacked, and it's resulted in this, for which I'm sorry.

Welcome Kirsty - you're right in what you say. It's Stephen's forum after all!

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Maniac


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Posted Thu Aug 23rd, 2007 11:51pm Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Maniac and Tracy - I sincerely apologise for any offense caused My comments were not intended to offend at all and the reversal I spoke of is at a subconscious level, so I wasn't suggesting you're all using your diagnosis as an attention-seeking aid.

It's difficult to infer tone from the written word, so I hope the insults and reprimands I sense from your messages, were not intended For someone who hates confrontation, you're very good at it! The energy was certainly felt, Maniac!

I was well intentioned writing my initial post (please all read that again ) - I really only wanted to offer another avenue for you all - I tried to choose my words carefully - 'should you so wish' etc and a 'thanks but no thanks' would have sufficed, or, nothing at all! But you chose to reply and by saying things like 'haughtily look down on people' and then make your direct comparisons to me, I don't feel I made the first pre-judgements......... I replied in haste to your post Tracy as I felt attacked, and it's resulted in this, for which I'm sorry.

Welcome Kirsty - you're right in what you say. It's Stephen's forum after all!

Tone is always difficult in the written form. Sometimes words written with too much emphasis on being nice are taken the wrong way as they seem contrived.

Stephen has more than likely never even looked at this forum - it being his is no point at all.

I would like to apologise if I have gotten the wrong end of the stick. (Hopefully not Tracy's stick as it has shit on it.

I'm glad you felt the energy- I thought I was losing my touch.

I'm going to the zoo tomorrow.

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Jodyne


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Posted Fri Aug 24th, 2007 12:02am Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Yeah, I get what you're saying about seeming contrived, Maniac

Which zoo? I've only ever been to Twycross - chimps were my favourite!

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tracy8673


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Posted Fri Aug 24th, 2007 12:03am Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Don't forget to take your crystals, Maniac

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Maniac


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Posted Fri Aug 24th, 2007 12:03am Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
Dudley Zoo
They have a new primate bit where they are sort of freer than they would be if they were not free.
Like, not free to be given away, but free to roam.
I have a new camera which I will be taking with me.
I likes photos.
Tracy would come with me but they might not let her out again.

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tracy8673


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Posted Fri Aug 24th, 2007 12:05am Post subject: Energy therapy for BPD and MD
X-D at Maniac.

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