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kendoddsdadsdogsdead

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Posted Wed Oct 3rd, 2007 11:04am Post subject: My BP.
I am a Scottish Ex-Pat who had lived in The Netherlands for 17 years and was recently diagnosed Bi Polar. Although I speak good Dutch and the medical community certainly speak great English, it was not until I saw this documentary that I fully understand what has been happening to me over the past 30 or so years.
I have always been able to make friends with people easily and many of these are still good friends years later. Now I suppose I could be called fairly good looking (at least in my younger days!) but I am just an ordinary guy, a welder by trade, so why did these people, Dutch and British, think of me so highly...loved even? This programme made it startlingly clear to me, a bolt from the blue, so to speak. It was my un-medicated BP!!!
During the doc Mr. Fry and others mentioned the "button" and at the end Stephen himself stated again "Would I switch the button off, I think not". Now I knew what the attraction was other people had for me, it was the way I acted towards them, I never judge, I love to be in the company of others and I love to converse with people. Some people call me a blether ( Scots for chatterbox I suppose) My best friend just says "Shut up"and I do.
No BP is not a life destoying illness for me, as it was for one poor woman in the programme and I will continue along the path life has chosen for me and never, ever, will I push the button.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart BBC and Mr. Stephen Fry.
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katysara

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Posted Wed Oct 3rd, 2007 12:59pm Post subject: My BP.
Welcome to the forum.  Interesting name - I can't even pronounce it. Haver away on this forum (see I know some Scottish).
I'm afraid I would push the button. I know Connie (the woman in the program to which you are referring). She is doing OK at the moment, but she'd still push that button too.
KSx I am an administrator on this site.
"Having a great intellect is no path to being happy."
~ Stephen Fry
See my website: www.katysaraculling.com
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Anonymous

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Posted Wed Oct 3rd, 2007 7:00pm Post subject: My BP.
Welcome Doddie. I'm far too lazy to type that whole name out
I'm glad you have a good story to tell with no horrors caught within. I find it interesting to say that the Dutch and British friends liked you so much because of your un-medicated BP. I get the feeling that many people here feel getting rid of their BP would get rid of their personality.
I disagree. The manic episodes where you become the life of the party are you. SO are the down stages. So is the middle ground. People don't like you because you're social. People like you for being you, for all the pluses and negatives and normal bits and odd bits. People don't love the 'ill' version of you: they love you for you.
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seasun545

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Posted Wed Oct 3rd, 2007 8:31pm Post subject: My BP.
Hello Kendo....so on:
Nice to meet someone able to see the bright side of the road. I agree with you, many friends and people who fell in love with me came in my hypomanic moments. What a shame that, when I went down to depressive states I got rid of them or they run away (mostly, I disappeared to get rif of them, must confess). That´s the other side, the one that makes you think about "pressing the button". Good for you If you can stay on that nice mood and see positive things, I envy you for that.
And welcome!
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Anonymous

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Posted Fri Oct 5th, 2007 4:24am Post subject: My BP.
Yes... Welome on board kendoddsdadsdogsdead.
Take care,
Pete
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