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RighthoJeeves


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Posted Sun Sep 23rd, 2007 5:14am Post subject: Seeing Mania in others
My husband and I both have bipolar but to say all bipolars are alike would not be correct nor would I even suggest it. My husband recently had a spate of mania, not sleeping well, talking endlessly on the phone to things he was intrested in ( not to friends) spent money without letting know the details of, He doesnt need to consult me for spending money on a hamburger but advertsing which is more than our monthly rent, I like to know about. I dont have that urge to spend money, if I have it I shop for what I need and if I have spare what I want too. I am not impulsive though whereas my husband is.
He worried my parents who worried about his spending seeing as he does only work in catering as gaurnteed money coming in and his own business just started. At first he felt like he was being attacked, in classic manic way we get when we are in the mode of wanting to do this and that and the other. You cant tell us No. He was also having some disputes at his work acting in the same way. His whole thing came about when his doctor thought Geodon would be better than Abilify,which he was on and is on again. Geodon made him so tired and made him feel giddy, no appeite and then he stopped sleeping, so he got switched back but the switching and switching back caused a bit of mania.
Thankfully his mania is easing off. I now see what my folks have seen in me when I get manic which isnt very often with lithium and tegretol. I dont really see it, my mood swings are just womenly hormonal aka PMS but other than that its ever so slight now.

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katysara


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Posted Sun Sep 23rd, 2007 2:18pm Post subject: Seeing Mania in others
I know a bit about how you feel. I have had 3 bipolar partners. (Don't ask me how, it just happened like that). Two committed suicide, one in 2001, and one of whom I considered my wife in Nov 2005.

One is still around but lives in London. She was terrible with spending money, thousands of pounds wasted, and she even stole money from me, lived in my flat in Oxford rent free... so on and so forth. When manic I also tended to spend way too much and got into some debt. It was hard. She was also an alcoholic which was an added problem (brandy on her cornflakes)... Mmm.

I don't know what I am really trying to say, but I guess it is something like, I feel for you and I understand.

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