I watched bits of it, some bits were just too painful?, uncomfortable to watch. I know I am completely biased as I (like all of us here) have great fondness for our lovely Mr. Fry. But it has to be said although I'm a pacifist by nature I wanted to slap her silly.
Also I think Sarah from facebook or was it Susan told me the person being interviewed decides what is edited and what is not. Can you imagine what was edited out if this was so uncomfortable to watch?
I think they did present it as therapy show to the people who took part, but it is a telly show after all and what old Pamela was trying to do (in my opinion) was to fast forward it and compress what would probably be months of therapy in a few hours session (if it can even be called that).
What struck me the most (again just my opinion) that in a way she was trying to bully him into saying he was abused. Which might or might not be true, it is after all his experience but if he is not ready to say the words bullying is not the way to go about it.