STEPHEN FRY

i still have mine too!! wieeeeerd.
but i'm missing a canine or an incisor.

oh.... handsome. (is this for real, are you going for him? sometimes, seasun, i'm not quite sure if you are joking....you seem like someone whose voice i would want to hear to make sure)

i have a little piece of that too... s/he's a hermaphrodite. i strongly encourage going for it!!

just follow your heart!!

i know what you mean about staying away when you feel bad. sometimes i wish there was a code word in the world for "i feel really bad and i don't want to start talking about it or a waterfall of ... who knows what... will come...but i'm still here..." not just on forums but face to face too! i don't think i'd mind, or anyone else would mind if you post stuff when you're feeling that way.

oh, and p.s. i saw you were from spain but i just assumed you were a native english speaker!! i don't speak english very well, i'm from oklahoma. (jk... BAD joke.)

Your English is indeed excellent. In fact most non-native speakers write and speak better English than many native speakers I know. It's true!!!

Hi Banjo,
About posting here, well , I know I can talk here openly, that´s the reason I join this forum. As you may have noticed, this is a place where people open their hearts and minds and we have sometimes said "we speak a language no one else understand", and I´m proud of having that atmosphere here, it´s just...special. I sometimes even dare to post poems I write, no other way to express how I´m feeling...

We´ve had people here trying to break that atmosphere with sharp comments or mocking somehow people, people having bad days, people alone with no one else to talk about these things, people feeling weak and in need of some "virtual" warmth or information, just receiving a slap in the face cause "those others" don´t pay special attention to what is said and sometimes, how is said.

I think this is a place to be specially careful with words and feelings, and that means, for me, not only not being sharp or rude, of course, but also, sometimes (for me, insist) I think it´s better left things unsaid that may depress other people. Just guess for a moment someone here says he/she wants to commit suicide and I´m feeling so bad that I tell him/her: ok, let´s do it together cause life stinks and I can´t go on either!!. That´s what I meant...and that´s the only reason why I leave the forum sometimes for a few days...till the storm goes away.

Somedays ago I posted something telling how proud I feel of people around here, moderators and people posting, devoted people taking care of this lovely place wich is a kind of oasis to rest your soul when you´re feeling down and want to share and being understood and, again, virtually hug, specially for those who, like me, haven´t talked to anyone but shrinks and doctors (still in denial and embarrassed, I guess...)

So yes, I will keep on posting here when I feel down, but If someone is feeling as bad as me and I just have more dispair left to give, well, I think I´d rather shut up....that´s all I meant. :-// And again, just my point of view.

Oh, and thanks for assuming I was native english speaker, you made my day!!!!
Well said Seasun. I absolutely agree with you.
Take care,
oxo
Pete

Uf, wish I was...never felt so weak before...but thanks, you´re lovely.

By the way, almost 00.00 hour here in Spain so happy 30 birthday, welcome to the thirties... I remember a phrase from "Friends", one of my favourite shows ever. I´d say: welcome to the thirties, it´s a crap, but you´ll love it!!!
Have a nice day!!