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Loona


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Posted Sun May 4th, 2008 10:19am Post subject: Where you stand at work.
Thank you very much, John Steed! I never heard about "green giant" before. Nice guy!

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Depressed Green Giant


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Posted Mon May 5th, 2008 11:28pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.
Loona, his forum name is a reference to this cultural icon of American and British processed food.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jolly_Green_Giant

And a reference to my height (6'10") as well as my environmental attitudes, i do voluntry work with a uk based recycling group - oh, and i also like sweetcorn

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fluffy muffin


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Posted Mon May 12th, 2008 9:47pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.
I work as a psychiatric nurse and have also suffered from depression myself. I also have colleagues who have mental health problems.

Fears exist in any field of work about disclosure and the consequences. We would all hope that our workmates and bosses will be supportive. Of course, in reality this is not always the case as so many preconseptions still surround mental illness.

I can only speak from my personal experience that honesty is generally the best policy if you feel it is likely that you may need support from time to time. It's about approaching someone you trust.

In an ideal world there would be acceptance for all and we could always be up front about our issues. Unfortunately, life is not ideal.

Getting the best help you can, either from mental health services or support groups is invaluable. There is no shame in asking for help and it is not a sign of weakness; quite the opposite. It takes great courage to do so. The help is there, although can sometime be hard to access, much to the frustration of those trying to provide it.

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b1ackcr0w


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Posted Mon Sep 1st, 2008 11:08pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.
Hi,

I've had BP for around 20 years, I'm 34 now.

I've had several major episodes which have crippled my career several times over.

I had a strong episode last year which resulted in hospitalisation. This time though, I got to the point where I didn't feel I either could or should conceal the truth about my mental state from my work any longer.

Firstly, I told my immediate bosses, who I felt I could trust. Although they struggled to understand it, they did defend me and probably secured my job when I was most vulnerable.

Then some months later, having been reassured by the result of the first disclosure, I disclosed again when the business I was working for was taken over by another company.

What I have found is that even people who don't understand or you may have thought hold prejudices, will react well. But you have to be brutally honest.

I think the key factor is whether or not you are actively seeking treatment. If not, I think I can understand why bosses may misunderstand and discriminate against a sufferer. Making it clear you're getting help makes it easier for the employer in general. If nothing else, giving you time off for treatment gives them the feeling they are doing their bit to help.

There's much in the truism "Honesty os the best policy"

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Littlewing


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Posted Thu Oct 23rd, 2008 10:54pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.
Having not trusted my employer further than I could throw them, I decided I had to tell them about my diagnosis and the fact that I was now taking medication etc. To my complete and utter surprise, they have so far been supportive and helpful. My HR lady has a degree in psychology which may be one of the reasons they were so good, but I found it a tremendous relief to tell them. My trust in my employer has been restored somewhat, although I am still a bit suspicious of them. Only time will tell, but I was recently ill and signed off by my doctor and they have been absolutely fine with it. I'm surprised and heartened in equal measure.

Obviously every case is different, but I was convinced I worked for the least understanding people in the world, and they have surprised me.

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poeticallyblind


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Posted Sat Oct 25th, 2008 3:37pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.
It`s an interesting question...I struggled for a longtime with `revolving diagnosis syndrome` and as a result, was not comfortable disclosing anything (hi, it`s Tuesday, I have schizophrenia...hello, it`s Wednesday, I have Asperger`s...ah, finally its Friday and they`ve finally gotten it right: it`s bipolar!)

I have had a BP diagnosis and adequate treatment for about a decade now, and have been òut`at work for about 5 years...I work with youth at risk (hate that term!) in schools and community, and It`s never been an issue. The trick for me is having enough people around me (both work and personal life) who can tell me when I am becoming symptomatic...

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zwarthond


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Posted Sun Nov 16th, 2008 12:04am Post subject: Where you stand at work.
hello to everyone
i was wondering if anybody out there could give me some advice about work.
unfortunately due to my anxiety disorder i have not been able to work, but being at home has not helped my depression and i am desperate to help bring in some money as my partner is struggling to earn enough money. i was wondering if anyone had any ideas for me-perhaps how i can work from home, or an idea for a job where i can work alone and not deal with members of the public!!!! any suggestions would be so greatly recieved.
thanks

Hello Hanny.... Ive worked on rock and theatre live shows for 25 years... the whole scene is full of misfits, my bipolar personality is not an issue, i seem to mix in fine and have been surprised at the generous attitude of others when things go mentally awry for me. Showbusiness or Entertainments has room for those of us that differ. The point is ive found a work atmosphere that instinctively feels right, often in which i feel quite sane... in a good way. Its all about personalities. Im in the process of taking my interest in design further by having a workshop where i can produce alone. Work is good therapy for me and ive come to realise that being able to do so as and when i desire is all good. Perhaps investing time in some artisan future would solve your need to work alone and provide meaning to your working life. My personal feelings are that to achieve some meaningful work where you are in charge will require an investment of time and maybe money, meanwhile a sustaining 'any old job' would be bearable while you secure your ideal.
A point... im a qualified designer, years ago i had some success freelance, working alone. This led me to be headhunted for a design company... that i was fired from due to not fitting in without a doubt my bipolar genius... at the time it finished my design future... rock'n;roll beckoned. I understand the lure of working alone, without the babbling hordes all around. Less digression... perhaps proofreading.. a friend does so from home.

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Roxy641


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Posted Tue Nov 18th, 2008 2:54am Post subject: Where you stand at work.
I wonder what would happen in my case.

Have never been dignosed with any kind of depression, but then I haven't gone out of my way to tell my doctor or anyone in that kind of field.

My point is, if I even suspect that I am suffering from depression and because I don't put it on a job application form, would I suffer if they offered me a job, but found out afterwards.

Roxy641

\"Life is too important to be taken seriously\". OSCAR WILDE.

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zwarthond


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Posted Wed Nov 19th, 2008 12:34am Post subject: Where you stand at work.
I wonder what would happen in my case.

Have never been dignosed with any kind of depression, but then I haven't
gone out of my way to tell my doctor or anyone in that kind of field.

My point is, if I even suspect that I am suffering from depression and because I don't put it on a job application form, would I suffer if they offered me a job, but found out afterwards.

Roxy641

Ok... i suggest that you do tell a professional if any form of depression or anxiety is complicating your life. Go through them to receive more specialist help if theres a need. A good GP will tell you the alternatives... inc. Alternative therapies! With any condition its important to have some form of control, initially this is gained through knowledge, find out why you feel like you do and so on. No one has all the answers, so take what advice you can and use it to your advantage.
As far as im aware you dont have to disclose any depression related illness when applying for a job... in fact from my experience dont say anything. I work with cokeheads, alcoholics,ego maniacs and i bet that none of them put that on their job application.
If you see a job you like, go for it, if it doesnt work out... so what? You owe nothing to your employer except to do your work as best as you can. Their paying for your time, not your soul.
If finding work causes you a real problem (i mean for social or emotional reasons.. not national unemployment ) then do seek advice.
As my Dad would say 'Always remember ... your not alone.... unfortunately'
Good luck, stay gold.

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Gayalondiel


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Posted Fri Nov 21st, 2008 12:01pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.
Disability Discrimination Law (UK)

Hi guys

I just came across a really interesting update to UK discrimination law (this is a House of Lords decision, I'm not sure how it holds across the rest of the EU).

Ages ago (I forget the year and name of the case, I'll try to update when I get home and check my notes) there was an employment case where it was held (by the Court of Appeal, I think) that the correct comparator for someone who was claiming less favourable treatment under the DDA was either an individual in the same circumstances but not disabled had been treated differently, or an individual who was not in the same circumstances (e.g. in a case where a disabled employee was dismissed for being off sick too much, you could use either a not-disabled employee with the same sickness absence who was not dismissed, or a not-disabled employee who did not have the same sickness absence record who was not dismissed). It was also held that if a disability was undisclosed, in certain circumstances the onus was on the employer, not the employee, to consider/investigate whether or not a case might involve disability.

In London Borough of Lewisham v Malcolm (2008), the appeal was taken to the House of Lords and everything has changed. This is a housing issue, not an employment one, but the Lords decision will apply across the board. LBL v Malcolm involved a chap who sublet his council flat and, when it was repossessed by the Borough Council, claimed he had done it because he was schizophrenic and claimed less favourable treatment. The Court of Appeal ruled in his favour because he could either be compared with someone not-disabled who had sublet their flat and not had it repossessed (of which there was not one) or someone who had not sublet their flat and who had not had their flat repossesed.

The Lords ruled that this was a daft comparison (they used longer words though) and established that the 2 comparator model is wrong, and henceforth any claim of less favourable treatment must have a comparator who is in comparable circumstances with a cause other than disability, and has been treated differently. They also ruled that it is necessary for disability to have been disclosed to the body making adjustments in order for reasonable adjustments to be made.*

The point of all this legal rambling is that a disabled person used to be able to bring a claim of less favourable treatment comparing themselves to someone who was not in their same exact situation. This is no longer the case and although I haven't seen any employment cases yet (I'm not sure if there have been any, I'm behind on my reading) it can be reasonably expected that no claim of less favourable treatment on the grounds of disability will be upheld unless you can compare yourself with someone who is in the same circumstances as you, but who is not disabled, to whom different treatment has been applied.**

The end of a very long ramble, then, is that proving less favourable treatment on the grounds of disability has just become a damn sight harder than it used to be. IMO it's the right decision, but it does mean that your laywer may have to work harder, if you ever decide to go down that route.

PS Sorry for the ramble. I just thought it was worth putting this here, as most legal texts won't have this case yet.



*If you have been off repeatedly citing the same cause for over a year, the time frame is long enough that any HR manager should know that you qualify for disability, but this hasn't been tested. If in doubt disclosure to the appropriate member of the HR department or your manager really is the way to go if you're going to ask for reasonable adjustments.

**This of course applies to any area of law touched by the DDA, but employment is my area.

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elTweeno


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Posted Sat Nov 22nd, 2008 9:27pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.
I work with youth at risk (hate that term!) in schools and community, and It`s never been an issue. The trick for me is having enough people around me (both work and personal life) who can tell me when I am becoming symptomatic...

You have no idea how relieved I am to hear that! I'm training to be a professional youth worker, & for 18 months I've been avoiding telling my Uni about my various little 'episodes'...

However, last week I finally conceded that they'd have to know sooner or later - especially since I've persuaded myself to try again with the NHS, hopefully for an actual diagnosis this time as opposed to 'stop stressing yourself out & you'll be fine'. Massively helpful

So, I told my tutor, who had already noticed that at times I seem a bit erratic, or go through phases of frequently turning up to lectures without any sleep. He was fantastically understanding, & I was much happier having said something, even wishing I'd said something earlier. I guess I'd feared that I might end up being told this wasn't the career for me (I know that at least 1 lecturer would've implied that) but at least I have a tiny bit of motivation back, with the knowledge of support from my course leaders. Also, I now know that I won't be in any further trouble over those missed lectures where I literally couldn't bring myself to get up all day...

Basically, I suppose what you disclose depends on how understanding your superiors & colleagues are, & how much they know about the subject; luckily, most of my lecturers are youth workers themselves, but I guess not everyone can be that lucky...

Oh, & a little note for poeticallyblind: I hate the term 'youth at risk' too. And, for that matter, the term 'NEET'. Glad to hear someone else does

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monochromeprincess


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Posted Thu Mar 5th, 2009 3:08pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.
Just a link to a topic discussing my experiences with illness and work so that it's here when the original thread sinks;

http://www.stephenfry.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4969

much love
mp xxxx

@dreamingshadow

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fryfan20


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Posted Tue Feb 16th, 2010 10:22pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.

firstly I haven't told anyone at work about my condition (pdd-nos,is in the autistic spectrum) and I really feel that I can't tell them. its not something you put on your CV or mention in any way in the job interview because tbh I don't think there will be a job to speak of after that. bosses don't like trouble and they really don't like trouble that they don't understand.so, I kept my mouth shut and try to be as good as I can.I almost got fired once because of my strange and unsocial behaviour and I am still not sure if they let me stay if my contract is up again. I am not sure that staying quiet is the best thing because I am scared that they will find out and if they do I am pretty sure that they are not going to be pleased. they had someone with autism working for them in the past and they got rid of them as soon as the quantity of work became to much for him.

when I had a performance review they said I could say anything to them and I was tempted but didn't because that would change there mind about keeping me I am sure.

doing my job and living like a normal person isn't easy for me but I try because it is all I can do. I am forced to life in a normal world who demands that I act like I am like everyone else.

I am what I am

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pieri_21


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Posted Sat Feb 27th, 2010 6:24pm Post subject: Where you stand at work.

I work at a school as a Learning Mentor and I haven't said anything yet. I wouldn't say being bipolar directly affects my job so I hadn't thought it was necessary. But I am worried that when I get bad (has happened a few times before) and get ill as a result (whether it be real or psychological) and miss work, I might get sacked or get a bad record. If I tell them, though, I'm scared they then might say I'm not suitable because I'm not reliable. Or that they might think I'm "just having an episode" when I might really be ill. I think people don't take bipolar people seriously, does anyone agree?.


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lurioosi


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Posted Thu May 20th, 2010 10:34am Post subject: Where you stand at work.

I am in my last week as a music teacher for my current system. I was "encouraged to resign" from my tenured position in February. It was hard to decide whether to resign quietly or to fight (they know about my condition - BP1). In the end, with my children in this system, the publicity it would be sure to generate in this tiny town, etc. I went ahead and resigned providing I get positive recommendations. I knew if I lost (or even won) a fight, no school system would touch me after that. It has been hard, as even with my seemingly voluntary resignation, tongues are wagging (not much to talk about in a small Alabama town, I suppose) If I do get another teaching job, I may not disclose this time. And that makes me angry. If it were cancer or MS disclosure would not present a problem. Oh well, their loss; they'll never find another music teacher who is as......interesting as I am!

I come from Alabama with a banjo on my knee....sans the banjo....but not the knee

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